Sonny taking to toilet training like a champ! He always surprises me when it’s time for the next big change in his life. We’re nappy free at all awake time now and there’s been minimal accidents and huge success
Having a home I love to be in and have people over to. This move has been so great for us, the location, the extra room and backyard, I could not ask for more
Daisy is almost one and we’ve had an amazing happy and mostly healthy year. She’s such an amazing light in our lives, I could write about her for hours
Ben providing for our family so I can enjoy this special time with the kids and not feel pressured back into work or time away from them. There are crappy days when I am jealous that Ben gets to be around adults but I’ll never have this time back with my babies
Our parents (the kids grandparents) for all being so involved and helpful. I can’t imagine doing this without them. The kids adore them and they are always there to lend a hand
My friends keep me sane. I have a lovely mix of amazing people in my life, some mothers, some from before I had children. I think I would go crazy without them. They all have such special qualities and they care for my family and I so much I know they would do anything for us, and visa versa
Lets also not forget COFFEE
Quick, easy and few ingredients are music to my ears when it comes to trying to cook something new. I thought I’d share a dish i’ve been making lately that is all of those things! I noticed an awesome looking salad at one of my favourite local cafes and thought I’d give it a go myself with my own spin. Great as a side salad or main and packed with good food for the kiddies to eat and take as a school lunch :) Feeds 2 adults and 2 kids in our home. Add extra and mix it up to make it your own!
1x pack of 180g halloumi
2x tin of lentils
1x tin cannellini beans or chickpeas
1x punnet of cherry tomatoes
Half a red onion
Half a lemon
Salt and Pepper
Rinse and drain lentils, cannellini beans, spinach and rocket
Cut into strips and fry halloumi in butter or nuttlex
Cut tomatoes into quarters
Finely dice onion
Chunky dice the avos
Mix all together in a salad bowl and season with lemon and salt and pepper
It’s also become really easy to buy organic halloumi, lentils and beans. For a vegan option replace the halloumi for marinated tofu.
Deciding to have 2 kids was an exciting and scary decision. I struggled to understand how I was going to survive with one more to look after. How on earth will I do the shopping? Who goes in the car first? How will I cook or clean or give them both the attention they need? It felt like life was about to become a lot more stressful!
But to my surprise I have found myself in a very different situation than the chaotic one I had created in my mind. Having 2 kids has some how chilled me out. I’m confused as to why, maybe it’s knowing that I don’t need to control every situation that’s happening with my kids, or the fact that Sonny’s getting older and Daisy is becoming more independent. Don’t get me wrong my kids can be wild and chaotic, like 2 little cyclones roaring through everything in their path. I just find myself feeling really calm about everything and dealing with frustrating moments so much better. Just enjoying my time with them, rather than stressing over silly little things. Of course there are stressful days but nowhere near what I thought these 2 little beings would bring me.
The fact that Daisy and I are both now sleeping more has helped be more patient. Maybe I just got lucky because I know not everyone finds motherhood as enjoyable or stress free and with good reason, these little people can raise hell when they want to. I just love it and wish this time would slow down a little because it’s going way to fast!
I love surprising Sonny with his favourite breakfast….pancakes! Today I made banana flavour with one hand due to a clingy baby but luckily they’re soo easy. He’s been loving getting up at 4.30am so cooking is a great way to pass the time. By the time it gets to 9am it feels like it should be afternoon.
In regards to the last post about looking in the bright side and choosing your own perspective, this book is amazing! I would highly recommend it to any mother. You don’t have to be a buddist or want to be one to appreciate the theory behind it. It’s all about being present and your best self for your babies :) I have bookmarked the pages that I can most relate to and every once in a while it’s a great refresh to go back through and reassess.
Click the photo to be linked to the book on Amazon
Wake up thinking it’s going to be a shitty day and chances are you’ll be right. Wake up thinking you can do better and chances are you will.
Wake up thinking this is going to be the best day ever and it’ll probably come close.
No I’m not trying to sell you a religion or pyramid ‘the secret’ style scheme. I’m just being mindful and conscious of my approach to certain situations that are being thrown at me every day at this point in life. My kids are always challenging me, my patience and my way of thinking. An insight to the toddlers mind would be awesome some days when I’m trying to think ‘why he’s screaming at the top of his lungs when he finds out there’s no more mineral water left, hmmmm’. But his way of thinking has also forced me to time and time again reevaluate my way of thinking.
I don’t ever want to look back on this time and feel disappointed. I know so far I’m proud of what Ben and I have accomplished with these children and I just want to keep the good times rolling. Learning to say ‘yes’ more, learning to pick my battles and not expect the worst.
This morning at 4.30 am I heard the door knob turn and tiny toddler feet walking into my room. “Hug Mummy? Show Mummy?” (Sonnys way of asking me for a hug then to go watch tv with him) At first I’ll admit I kinda pretended not to hear him, but he’s pretty persistent so that didn’t last. I initially just wanted to nudge Ben to get up because I couldn’t be bothered and it was too early, after all Daisy was still sleeping so I deserved a sleep in too. But then I heard his sweet little voice again; “C’mon Mummy” After as long as he’d laid down and hug for we were on our way to the couch. Toy Story was in the dvd player and he was happy. We sat and ate breakfast and hugged until Daisy woke and wanted a feed. It was all too early and loud but I just kept feeling like I can never get this morning back. I took every moment in with him. Smelling his hair while he sat in my arms, gently scratching his legs, holding his little hands, things I feel I never have time for these days or never make time for. It was the best.
Anyway, what I’m getting at is that these moments that I firstly feel like rolling my eyes at can turn into something so special, there’s just that choice that it begins with. A choice to turn the situation into a positive or negative. A smile instead of a frown can be the difference between a tantrum and a game, saying ‘yes’ to his help can create a special memory and build his confidence. Of course there’s a time and place for frowning don’t get me wrong. I’m just finding the more calm, gentle and relaxed I can be the more Sonny and Dais pick up on that and somehow take it on in their own attitudes too. What I’m saying is basically general knowledge but it can be so easy to get caught up in the list of things to do that the moment is missed or the frown just seems easier way out. I wish we could press pause at different phases of life now I know how quickly this time is passing!